"For humans, judgement is an instinct; we use it to make assumptions of what is safe, dangerous, unwise or otherwise potentially harmful to us. This can be applied to the teen-aged masses in generalized, metaphorical way"
It is nothing but human nature to judge, and want to be judged.
Even though many of us like to think that we don’t care about the opinions of strangers,
few can leave their homes without fixing their hair, applying makeup, wearing the latest trends, or any of the many other applications to the human body which are unnecessary, and time consuming.
Do people have better things to do than judge people wrongly?
First impressions are important, because you are judged based on what you wear, how you look, the way you present yourself, the way you speak, the way you sit.
Many associate girls with makeup as "vain", people who wearing spectacles as"geeks", people who wear tank-top and shorts as having "no fashion sense". What logic?!?
If you're not rich, if you're not wearing the branded clothes, if you're not driving a nice car, if you're not having a nice job, if you're not popular... if you're not in the crowd, you're literally treated like SHIT in this society and most people won't give a damn about you, except strangers who aren't so judgemental, and except friends who accept you for your unique self.
WHY? Because people nowadays only care about money and looks.
Personality isn't as important, as long as you look good / smart / rich, people notice you more, you will stand a better chance in everything. I HATE THIS SOCIETY, I hate the real world.
I thought that being kind, and having good thoughts is enough as they say that "good thoughts will shine from within". But I don't this in our society? I'm genuinely being good to everyone I meet, because I know that people can feel that, but it does get sad and tiring after a while when no one cares about the good thoughts I have for them (but a few do, and I really do appreciate them, such rare and lovely friends I treasure)
I thought that being kind, and having good thoughts is enough as they say that "good thoughts will shine from within". But I don't this in our society? I'm genuinely being good to everyone I meet, because I know that people can feel that, but it does get sad and tiring after a while when no one cares about the good thoughts I have for them (but a few do, and I really do appreciate them, such rare and lovely friends I treasure)
Do not judge people until their personal actions give you a reason to.
All of us as judgemental, yes ALL OF US.
It's only a matter of whether we're more judgemental or less judgemental.
We are all beautiful human beings and deserve respect and love. The world was made for peace and love, not hatred and judgement. Would very much appreciate if more people live by the simple philosophy "Do not judge people until their personal actions give you a reason to."
I'm tired of being judged and maybe that's why I shy away from people.
All of us as judgemental, yes ALL OF US.
It's only a matter of whether we're more judgemental or less judgemental.
We are all beautiful human beings and deserve respect and love. The world was made for peace and love, not hatred and judgement. Would very much appreciate if more people live by the simple philosophy "Do not judge people until their personal actions give you a reason to."
I'm tired of being judged and maybe that's why I shy away from people.